naya cutz her kurls off!!!!!!!!!!!

ladies, check out how naya,my daughter went over to my mom this past weekend. i had braided naya's natural hair into box braids and it was Little pass her shoulders. according to my mother, naya,was complaining about her hair being too long and about how it was making her hot. which i kind of understand, being that i put her hair in cornrows most of the time. The next thing she knew, naya's hair was on the floor. Naya chopped off more than half the length off her hair. every time i look at my 4year old daughter i get so close to crying. I'm so mad..GOSH..what mess!!!!!!!!

his night out!!!!!!!

Ok guyzzz, this is Tina,bust how my man/jump off, whatever title he wants to give himself didn't come home last night,I'm really waiting for his excuse. It better be one off those i was in the emergency lie because it's 8am and he is not home yet.. now y'all know I'm heated right.....GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!HOT MESS! but y'all know what I'm about to continue my sleep because i don't have the time and energy for this negativity...oh no!!!
ok "gurls" y'all know i have to give y'all an update on what happened. he was too tired to drive back home so he spent the night at his aunties house. he called and left a couple of massages. but i was too busy on the blog that i wasn't paying attention to my phone. so baby that cool. we made up and i gave him a Little dessert, y'all know what i mean...lol. Yo it was good too.....wow....hmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!! good night....sweet dreams!!!!!!!!!!!! so now I'm the hot mess!!!

why do children blame mothers for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mz.naei, Miz.T and the gurls at the beach!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi guyz, this is Tina   or y'all can call me MIZ. T. i have a little bit of a situation here, that i think y'all can help. i have a 5year old  daughter, who is  very close to her father, during our divorce,it affected her tremendously. which i totally understand, what hurts me is that she feels that i took her away from her father.  and that im mean. i have been nothing but a good and responsible mother to my child,Jada. how do i deal with this? what do i do? Her father sees her, when is convenance for him, like maybe once every 4months or more.. i do alot for my kids  to make them happy, im always there for them and  for her father to be appreciated and wanted by them even though he is not there half of the time torments my heart.. this is unfair. what do you guys think? i need your comments thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

reaching to your soul

love has it's up's and downs. but it is a beautiful thing to have. I'm sitting here, thinking about you and I'm wondering if you feel the same way. comparing you with my past i have come a long way, and for me to embrace love again, i thank you. all the goodies he use to hate, you love, i look into your eyes and i cry.tears of joy,tears of joy,tears of joy, is all i can say. i can't open my heart fully to you because I'm afraid i might get hurt again. i know it's unfair to you, but it is, what it is.i love you soo much and you know it, but the fear of being hurt again is hunting me.i hear your soul calling out my name but the sound of the rain drops,is distracting me, from making a decision. your soul is stretching out to me, but my hands are too short to reach. i felt so bad, so i told you about it, only to find out that you feel the same ways!!!!!!!!!!

RoCk N' lOvE yOuR hAiR

I am known for rocking wild hair styles, but you will not catch me rocking a long weave down my back though, NO! i don't have anything against the girls that do, that's just not me. i love to ware my hair short and i have been doing this for a long time. this all started when i started working at my moms beauty supply store.working there i experimented with different colors,textures and lengths.after a while i got sick of looking in the mirror and seeing someones hair on top on my hair,so i put clippers to my hair and i cut them both off. that's my story and below are pictures showing the different type of hair styles i have worn throughout the years.

i was going to a baby shower  and my hair was a hot mess,so, i put clippers in my hair and shaved all my hair off.

i had cut my hair into a Mohawk and when it was growing in, it turned into a high top and i rocked and owned that look!...lol

this style was a faded look and was one of my favorite styles..because it was convinced and i also liked how it brought my features!

in this style, i  have in a texturizer. it was a kool style to rock. i do this once in a while.

after putting in a teaturizer, i put a color rinse in my hair(plum)by" jazzin ". two weeks after, i bleached certain areas of my hair and that was the result i got.

i felt like funking out my hair so i colored it, went to the barbering shop and they put some designs on the back..i loved it!

OUT N' ABOUT

Mz.Naei  chilling with Kwesoul(an upcoming ghanaian artise with a great style)

these are a few pics of me(tina), Mz.Naei and kwesoul(an up and coming Ghanian artise) out N' about at a few events!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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why the drama!

ladies, something really confuses me, why do women make men a priority in their life most of the time. a good friend once told me "don't make a man a priority when you are just an option TO HIM"!!. as women we should know our worth and value. once we figure that out we will not be having those emotional problems that we have.
note that women are precious and unique and should be treated with respect and nothing less. don't settle for anything because you are afraid of being single, for it is better to be single and happy than to be in an unhappy relationship. women, AlWAYS settle for more not less! ALWAYS reach for the skies! As a woman ALWAYS know that you are entitled to be a mother to one person, and that is your child not your man. if he can not grow up drop that zero and get you a hero because i feel like mother nature puts women through alot of emotions already and we do not need any unnecessary drama. thanks ladies, take care of your selves and be good to what the most high spent time creating.women are meant to be powerful,adventurous, wise, goddesses, confident and just fabulous!!!!!!!!!!!